The Shelf: Trying to Keep a Soft Heart Safe

We are all born with innocence, looking for love, acceptance and support in life.  At some point, life lessons come and we learn about trust, identity, vulnerability, and relationships. Some of you have always had strong, firm, wiry characters.  You say exactly what you mean and don’t let anyone get anything over on you. You … More The Shelf: Trying to Keep a Soft Heart Safe

The Shelf

In the last few years, quite a few television shows became popular off the premise of organization.  We viewers were wooed with techniques that promised pretty cabinets, closets and drawers.  Phrases like open concept, clean lines, bright spaces became commonplace in organizational lexicon.  Especially during those early days of Covid when many of us were … More The Shelf

I’m Weird!

What makes you unique?  Maybe you have a generous heart.  Perhaps you are quick with your jokes.  You might be a great encourager. Or, you might snort when you laugh.  You might not read a room well. Who knows, maybe you are silent in group conversation but can hold your own one-on-one. We all have … More I’m Weird!

The Cheese Stands Alone

“Mejor sola que mal acompañada. (Better alone than in bad company.)” Many parents have aimed this advice at their child.   It’s often when they express displeasure in the friends surrounding their teens.  The angst of adolescence can cause us to reject anything coming out of our parents’ mouths that even remotely sounds like a life … More The Cheese Stands Alone

Your Roots

During the first two months of the year 2020, my husband and I were preparing to sell our first house.  We loved that house and were proud of it but it was time for a change. I staged my home myself with low-priced items from the local Ross and Marshalls to give it the best … More Your Roots

The Impact of Loss

We are all keenly aware that life is short.  In an instant, the loss of someone we love threatens to upend everything we know and all sense of normalcy. I have shared with you a little of my journey losing the dad who raised me 30 years ago.  Over the last couple of years, I’ve … More The Impact of Loss

It Wasn’t All Bad

When I’m getting to know someone on a deep level, I often mention that my childhood was dark.  I’m not sure why I lead with that.  Partly it’s because, chronologically, this is what shaped some of my formative years.  There is also something within me that wants to communicate that I may not be “all … More It Wasn’t All Bad

Open Up the Roof

I saw this featured image on Facebook with the caption: “Your friends matter!”  If you don’t know the reference, this is one artist’s interpretation of the story found in Mark 2:1-12.  That story in Mark 2 paints the picture of a paralyzed man who wanted to get to Jesus.  Four of his presumed friends carry … More Open Up the Roof