A Safe Friend

There’s nothing like having a friendship with someone who feels like home.  I met Silvia years ago at a church I was attending. Instantly, I liked this smart, beautiful, gifted woman. She’s the kind of person who looks proper but actually doesn’t take herself too seriously. She has an easy way about her and quick … More A Safe Friend

Holiday Mood

The end-of-year holidays and celebrations always bring me to reflection.  Of course, I’m thankful for my blessings.  I am also aware of the areas in my life where there is “room to grow” and hope to make progress as the year begins. I can attest to the fact that 2024 has been a year of … More Holiday Mood

I’m Weird!

What makes you unique?  Maybe you have a generous heart.  Perhaps you are quick with your jokes.  You might be a great encourager. Or, you might snort when you laugh.  You might not read a room well. Who knows, maybe you are silent in group conversation but can hold your own one-on-one. We all have … More I’m Weird!

The Impact of Loss

We are all keenly aware that life is short.  In an instant, the loss of someone we love threatens to upend everything we know and all sense of normalcy. I have shared with you a little of my journey losing the dad who raised me 30 years ago.  Over the last couple of years, I’ve … More The Impact of Loss

It Wasn’t All Bad

When I’m getting to know someone on a deep level, I often mention that my childhood was dark.  I’m not sure why I lead with that.  Partly it’s because, chronologically, this is what shaped some of my formative years.  There is also something within me that wants to communicate that I may not be “all … More It Wasn’t All Bad